Will It Surprise You?
You know, in fact the finest feeling on the Earth is love.
Love to children, love to the nature, the native land, people, yes,
eventually, to each other. At times, without noticing it, we are dipped into
the raging river of life, forgetting about everything in the world, being
gradually alienated from the concept of love which is close to us, people. You
will ask, who I am, to have the right to discuss, advise, moreover, and
to raise this theme at all? I shall answer
you. I am a human being! I am precisely as much a human being as you are.
Recollections of love never die away. They come back,
accompanying us for a long time after all has passed. And there is nothing new
in it. Each sincerely loving person knows: the love leaves indelible traces in
one’s heart because it is spiritual by nature. The person who has never loved
is not capable of great achievements, he is hopeless - he is dead, though he
Coming back from time to time to the past and being dipped
into the fine memories of the gone love, we are given "refuge" in which it is
possible to hide from the unpleasant reality. Probably, our ideas will be
carried away to the world of imagination, ideas and plans which can reverse
our spiritual condition, but, but, but …
If you think yourselves unfortunate because you have loved
and have lost, get rid of this idea. The love is freakish and whimsical. It
comes, whenever it likes, and leaves without warning.
Accept it and enjoy it while it is here, but do not spend
about its loss. By this, you will not return it.
It is incorrect, that love happens only once in a lifetime.
Love can come and leave incalculable number of times, and there are no two
experiences of love, which affect the person equally. There should not be also
any disappointments in love, but it is necessary for the people to understand
the difference between emotions of LOVE and SEX.
Combined with the emotions of romanticism and sex, love can
the person to the most fruitful of creative efforts.
“Emotions of love, sex and romanticism are the sides of an
eternal triangle of the achievements outlining genius”, these are the words of
one of the great men, Andrew Karnegi, told once on this occasion.
Love is an experience, which has many sides, colors
and shades. However, the strongest and the most
burning is the one which incorporates emotions of love and sex. Moreover, when
romantic experiences are also added to them - then marriage becomes ideal,
however unreal it may sound!
Sex is a powerful stimulus to action, but its forces are
similar to a cyclone - frequently they are not controlled. But when emotions
of love incorporate emotions of sex, they result in calmness, steadiness,
accuracy of judgments and confidence. The person guided by the desire to
please the woman to whom he feels only sexual desire, may be and usually is
capable of great achievements, but his actions can be chaotic, perverted and
completely fatal. Such person is capable to steal, deceive and even to commit
a murder. But when sex is complemented with love, this person will act more
reasonably, in a more balanced way.
Love, romanticism and sex create emotions, which can raise
the person to the heights of super achievements.
Love is the feeling, which carries out the function of
safety and guarantees balance, steadiness and creative actions. The
combination of emotions of love, romantic experiences and sex can raise the
person up to the height of genius! And on the contrary…
The way to being a genius is through developing the
emotions of sex, romanticism and love, control and use of these emotions.
Here is another example:
It is widely known, that chemistry can create deathly
poison, mixing in the necessary proportion elements, any of which in itself is
not harmful. Emotions, too, can mix up in a similar way and a fatal poison can
be created from them. Thus, emotions of sex and jealousy, being mixed, can
transform a man into a mad animal.
Appearance of any destructive
emotions in a human brain can generate the poison
destroying in it the feelings of justice and honesty.
Sexual desire is the strongest in human life. Under the
influence of this desire people develop an acuteness
of imagination, bravery, will power, persistence and creative abilities not
characteristic of them at other time. The desire of sexual contact is so
strong, that people risk life and reputation for the sake of it. And if this
force is controlled and directed to a proper channel, it keeps all attributes
inherent in it (imagination, bravery, etc.) which can be used as a powerful
creative power in literature, painting or any other
occupations. The desire of sexual expression is congenital and natural.
This desire cannot and should not be suppressed and excluded. And if it has no
exit through transformation, it will try to search for ways exclusively
through physical channels.
Example: a dam can be constructed on the river, and water
will be under control for some time, but, eventually, it will find an exit.
The same can be said about the emotions connected with sex. They can be
suppressed or controlled for some time, but their nature itself forces them to
search constantly for means of expression. If they are not transformed in any
creative effort they will find a less worthy exit. Well, actually, we have
come to the place where the basic idea is discovered, according to
author’s plan. Well, you are welcome…
In the world there are a lot of proverbs, sayings, or just
jokes concerning girls, female logic, and in general female sex. They are made
fun of, laughed at - in other words, "the weaker sex".
However, very few know what I shall tell you further…
There is a very old proverb: “The wife can either ennoble
the husband, or break him”. I shall try to explain. More often the man
is guided by
his desire to please the woman! The man wishes to
please the woman precisely the same way as he
did it at the beginning of civilization. The only
thing that has changed since then is the way. Men, who grow rich and rise to
the tops of power and glory, do it generally for the sake of satisfying their
desire to please the woman. Remove women from men’s life and the majority of
them will lose interest to wealth. It is this peculiar to men desire to please
women that gives women force to ennoble men or to break them.
In history you can frequently meet the names of great
leaders whose achievements were influenced by women. These men
increased their creative abilities (it is
possible) under the influence of sexual desire. Napoleon Bonaparte was one of
such men. When his wife Zhozefina inspired him, he was invincible.
But, according to the logic I have told above,
he drew her
aside, and his affairs came to decline. And then
both his defeat, and “St. Elena” appeared not far off.
P.S: In spite of the variety of topic mentioned by me, I
wanted to communicate to you only two basic ideas:
1. Sexual energy directed to the necessary channel allows
opening powerful creative, physical and spiritual forces in a common person.
2. The idea of the existence of spiritual love has the
right to life! And if it is supported with romanticism and sexual desire, it
is a gift. The gift from above!
Actually, it’s all I think on this occasion. Yes - yes,
only think and nothing more. It is a simple analysis of what we
come across practically every day.
And as one of the great has said: “Love is the same as
talent, and everyone is gifted with this talent in a different degree. And
someone may well be deprived of it”.
to you to decide …
By Sergey Yarmonchik,
Kharkiv Market Economy and Management